[dixie]

Here's a place to list the unwanted things in a potential partner... and of course, I'll go first.

Do Not Want!
- someone who will make me cry (not in the good way)
- someone who does not exist and/or is fraudulent in their existence
- someone who treats their family poorly (family is very important to me)
- someone who talks down to me
- someone who will not communicate openly with me
- someone who is demeaning to others and/or me and mine
- someone who is constantly in a bad mood
- someone with no personality
- someone with no sense of humor
- someone who is abusive (physically or verbally) to other people and/or animals
- someone who does not take me seriously as an individual
- someone who wants to change me (if you want to change me, why be with me to begin with?)
- someone who lacks passion, not only in the bedroom but in life in general
- someone rude or lacking manners, especially in public
- someone who doesn't believe me when I tell them how I feel