06-21-2011, 01:55 PM
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wet blanket, redux
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Originally Posted by sassy_girl
But, but beautiful is just part of it.. (and I agree she is)..what if she ummm does not love dogs or something? Beautiful can only go so far... What if she has a tendency to be late or tap her toe... That's it?
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disclaimer: Hypothetically using Dixie here, I am sure she loves dogs.
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So. I've been watching this thread from the beginning and it immediately seemed problematic to me. Lists are limiting. They constrain by what is contained from beginning to end. I think preferences are normal, but I agree with sassy, there are a lot of niggling, insignificant details contained in some. (And yes, I did just publicly agree with sassy, so?)
What if the love of your life is a victim of childhood sexual trauma at the hands of her older brother, and isn't comfortable giving blow jobs? Sorry, babe, I ain't gonna love ya.
I see so many here holding up these ideals, these "perfect" visions of what they desire, and yet, single. I wonder if any of you ever look deep inside yourselves and wonder, who's list am I making?
Finding love is about one thing, really.
Be open.
Ok, two - do your "work." No one else is going to make a silk's purse out of the sow's ear of your life.
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Last edited by Mister Bent; 06-21-2011 at 02:14 PM.
Reason: forgot the ?
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