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*Anya* · 06-22-2011, 07:47 AM

This is my second day on this site & am glad I found it. I have been single for way too long but it was where I have been at & I accept that. I am in my late 50's & find it so hard to start over but this is a first step, right? I was in a 19 year relationship. I was faithful but she was not- several times. I finally ended it and asked her to move out. I think I was so wounded by her that I have really needed to heal on my own for the last 5 years. I am healed but still unsure how to date again since I am no longer in my 20's.
I am an RN with a bachelors degree. I have two grown daughters who are both married with children. I am a gamer (go ahead- laugh! Just read in Time that average age if gamer is now 37); I read a lot both "good" literature & zombie books (no idea why I dig them); garden-roses; just got a personal trainer; lost a lot of weight that I put on during those 18 years and I am starting over! Why did I join? I just saw a news item about a widow/widower in their 90's & thought: "Hell yes! Time to get my ass in gear"!

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Anya Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Lesbian non-stone femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, her Relationship Status: Committed to being good to myself Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: West Coast Posts: 8,258 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 39,306 Thanked 40,455 Times in 7,284 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Love this topic, thanks! This is my second day on this site & am glad I found it. I have been single for way too long but it was where I have been at & I accept that. I am in my late 50's & find it so hard to start over but this is a first step, right? I was in a 19 year relationship. I was faithful but she was not- several times. I finally ended it and asked her to move out. I think I was so wounded by her that I have really needed to heal on my own for the last 5 years. I am healed but still unsure how to date again since I am no longer in my 20's. I am an RN with a bachelors degree. I have two grown daughters who are both married with children. I am a gamer (go ahead- laugh! Just read in Time that average age if gamer is now 37); I read a lot both "good" literature & zombie books (no idea why I dig them); garden-roses; just got a personal trainer; lost a lot of weight that I put on during those 18 years and I am starting over! Why did I join? I just saw a news item about a widow/widower in their 90's & thought: "Hell yes! Time to get my ass in gear"!