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Angelika · 06-24-2011, 10:21 AM

No posts here since FEB 2011? Either we do not have many in this type of relationship on BFP, or, they would rather have their nails pulled out than admit it openly *grins*. Be that as it may, I myself have been absent from BFP for a long while, and on that note, returning, I shall post here for my first 'return' post.

I agree with Isadora ... it has been around for ages. Not all 'Femme led' dynamics are D/s or BDSM, and of course, at the same time, not all 'Femme led' dynamics that hold components of D/s or BDSM, are 'Femme led' outside of such parameters. That is the beauty of all relationships, the uniqueness. In my case, all components are usually present, but much also depends on my willingness to engage.

I have no personal issues frolicking within the fold of 'vanilla' as da Boss where no D/s or BDSM takes place, nor do I go screaming into the night in frustration when I cannot beat some flesh or have my toes sucked in the shadowy flickers of candlelight. I do have issues if I am not da Boss though *laughs*

I love being the Head of the Household (for the lack of a better term), may it be within, or outside the lines of D/s (or BDSM). It carries with it the responsibilities, of course, but more so than anything, its openly empowering on so many levels.

Ah yes, dressed in pantyhose, a dark suit where the skirt stops just above the knees, pencil kind, the blouse almost sheer, hinting, but not showing; stilettos that make you afraid you will step on your boobage at age 60 if you do not wear a bra now; hair piled up, loosely cascading, inviting yet with a 'hands off' sign invisibly attached; small half mooned glasses perched at the end of the nose, looking over them at some unsuspecting Butch ... and not saying a word. Perhaps leaning against the doorway of a car repair shop, or standing casually in a boardroom setting, or waking up to sunlight streaming through my window and the smell of coffee assaulting my nostrils ... waiting, and knowing.

Oh the endless possibilities in a Femme led world!!!!

Angelika

06-24-2011, 10:21 AM	#135
Angelika Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Relationship Status: Not available Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Europe Posts: 56 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 0 Thanked 37 Times in 13 Posts Rep Power: 482810	No posts here since FEB 2011? Either we do not have many in this type of relationship on BFP, or, they would rather have their nails pulled out than admit it openly grins. Be that as it may, I myself have been absent from BFP for a long while, and on that note, returning, I shall post here for my first 'return' post. I agree with Isadora ... it has been around for ages. Not all 'Femme led' dynamics are D/s or BDSM, and of course, at the same time, not all 'Femme led' dynamics that hold components of D/s or BDSM, are 'Femme led' outside of such parameters. That is the beauty of all relationships, the uniqueness. In my case, all components are usually present, but much also depends on my willingness to engage. I have no personal issues frolicking within the fold of 'vanilla' as da Boss where no D/s or BDSM takes place, nor do I go screaming into the night in frustration when I cannot beat some flesh or have my toes sucked in the shadowy flickers of candlelight. I do have issues if I am not da Boss though laughs I love being the Head of the Household (for the lack of a better term), may it be within, or outside the lines of D/s (or BDSM). It carries with it the responsibilities, of course, but more so than anything, its openly empowering on so many levels. Ah yes, dressed in pantyhose, a dark suit where the skirt stops just above the knees, pencil kind, the blouse almost sheer, hinting, but not showing; stilettos that make you afraid you will step on your boobage at age 60 if you do not wear a bra now; hair piled up, loosely cascading, inviting yet with a 'hands off' sign invisibly attached; small half mooned glasses perched at the end of the nose, looking over them at some unsuspecting Butch ... and not saying a word. Perhaps leaning against the doorway of a car repair shop, or standing casually in a boardroom setting, or waking up to sunlight streaming through my window and the smell of coffee assaulting my nostrils ... waiting, and knowing. Oh the endless possibilities in a Femme led world!!!! Angelika __________________ You are born with three things: intelligence, endurance and the opportunity to build integrity. You decide how much intelligence and endurance you are going to use. You build integrity every single day with the choices you make. \| Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/AngelikaCourtois \| Twitter: http://twitter.com/ACourtois \|