Came across a REALLY great site from Lambda Legal and wanted to share...
These are things we ALL should be thinking about no matter what age we are:
http://www.lgbtagingcenter.org/resources/index.cfm
In particular is this workbook.. It is long but comprehensive and talks about the WHYS of planning::
http://www.lgbtagingcenter.org/resou...ource.cfm?r=42