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SuperFemme · 01-20-2010, 01:49 PM

I would also like to add that some of the things HB mentioned are very important to some B/F folks. Poke around and you'll find many *old school* butches and femmes. They are just as fabulous as any of us I think.

I think a giant leap was made in suggesting that it *comes down* to open doors. Like that is the defining thing that makes any relationship or is the top rung in the ladder of B/F dynamics.

But you cannot deny that it is important to some. Doing so would erase and minimize those who DO find opening doors a very complex and personal part of their dynamic.

01-20-2010, 01:49 PM	#35
SuperFemme Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Permanently Banned 10/24/2010 Preferred Pronoun?: She. Relationship Status: Married (one of 18,000) Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Atascadero, CA Posts: 4,933 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,309 Thanked 7,108 Times in 2,327 Posts Rep Power: 0	I would also like to add that some of the things HB mentioned are very important to some B/F folks. Poke around and you'll find many old school butches and femmes. They are just as fabulous as any of us I think. I think a giant leap was made in suggesting that it comes down to open doors. Like that is the defining thing that makes any relationship or is the top rung in the ladder of B/F dynamics. But you cannot deny that it is important to some. Doing so would erase and minimize those who DO find opening doors a very complex and personal part of their dynamic.