[clay]

Originally Posted by MaggieBluIze

Morning Ruthie!!!
I am so glad you wrote this ... I was starting to think it was just me and what I was attracting ... I am honest and truly looking for a life partner ... I love being loved, I love to love, I love growing with someone ... All I keep finding is people that are just looking for that quick in and out and that is soooooooooo very not what I want. I was wondering what kind of vibe I was putting out there. Seems like what I keep running across is people fresh out of LTRs that are looking to finally play after being a couple for so long ... Pretty much like a mid life crisis ... When I'm looking for that forever kind of love.

*sigh* I know it's out there ... I know I'll find it one day ... I refuse to give up ... It is just a very lonely process that can been very disappointing ... Keep the faith, it'll happen.

((((((((((((((((((((((MAGGIE))))))))))))))))))))
Yes ma'am, you WILL! When you least expect it...someone will sweep you right off your feet!
I guess I am a "rare bird" in that I DID have a wonderfully healthy, loving relationship...and I have NO baggage from that. I had 2.75 years to heal and have time to myself. I am not in a mid-life crisis. I am not "needy" but WANT a LTR again. I also believe in OFOS moral compass, sound moral turpitude, and ideals.
For me...it begins with a simple hello....and we start a conversation....and I can get a "feel" for that person...emails...eventually talking on phone..it has to start somewhere..and I enjoy those special initial talks...getting acquainted....seeing if there is a chemistry there...vibes...aura...
I enjoy that getting to know her aspect of this...discovering interesting facets of her...and let it grow and evolve..and enjoying the slow, relaxed, LIKE stage!
I wish you all the best in your search, Maggie! You are a truly amazing lady!!! Very beautiful...through and through..and you have a wonderful soul!!!
BTW are you near Austin by any chance? I have family in Denison...and cousins who work for AC! I haven't ever been out to visit them but they are always inviting me...I have lots of Austin tee shirts!!! lol....
Hugs again sweet Maggie!!!! Clay