I don't recall if we can post links to websites here!
I joined a place, my fitness pal, on April 11th and lost 24 pounds so far

It's a website to track calories and exercise. I downloaded the APP on my phone because I am barely ever on my laptop anymore.
It's free and SO simple and fun! (big community)
basically, it gives you calories to keep at to lose/maintain or gain
and you track exercise and such
I also go to the gym 3-4x a week, sometimes more.
Going to JAMAICA in August and I wanted to have a bit more confidence walking about half naked.
I do feel totally sexy-feeling right now at the weight I am at, but I do feel mentally and physically better since I started eating better and going to the gym. So! I am going to keep it up.