[msW8ing]

While taking my dog son out for his before bedtime constitution, there was a new couple moving into my apt complex, being naturally courious I looked to see who they were. So happened it was a butch/femme couple, mid to late 30's. I smiled at them both said hi and kept walking. I could hear the femme berating the butch, I ignorned it. Walking back past them, the femme looks at me all smug as if to say watch this, looks into the back of the U-haul and her butch and growls, " I'm done, if you ever wanna get laid again you'll finish unloading this truck". I was appauled. I just looked at her, and shook my head, kept walking. Now did this femme think she was going to impress me by berating her mate? Did it make her feel all big and in control to talk such trash to her mate and not have a backlash from it? Is she so insecure of her relationship that she had to show off and think she was showing who was in control of thier relationship? I've witnessed it both ways in relationships. One mate trying to over dominate the other. I guess I've just been living under my rock to long and don't get it. If this is what relationships are coming to, I'll choose to stay under my rock.