I think you are wrong - you not only can talk to her about it, you SHOULD talk to her about it.
Has she told you shes in love with thie straight woman? If not, don't assume she is. My best friend (for thirty years) and I love each other so much. We hugs and kiss and sit side by side. We call each other honey and baby and love and any other stupid love word you can think of. When she came to visit me my children kept saying "You guys are lovers! You guys are lovers!", but we are not and never have been.
The point is, you are in love with her - Tell her!
My late husband and I were frineds for years. He kept telling me "I love you" I kept saying, "I love you too." But I thought we meant in a friendship way. After a Loooooooog time he finally said. "I want you to listen to me. I not only love you, I am IN LOVE WITH YOU!!" Well it changed the way I looked at him instantly. We ended up spending twenty five happy years together before he died.
Take a chance!
Smooches,
Keri
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