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bigbutchmistie · 07-24-2011, 10:59 AM

Hey I wanna start by saying I totally agree with IamKeri1

I have been in your shoes before. It hurts like hell. But, when you love someone you truly want their happiness even if its not you.

For me, I HAD to tell her. She had to know. I couldnt eat, I couldnt sleep, and she was on my mind all the time. The scent of her perfume the tenderness of her touch although innocently drove me insane. LOL

Even though I knew she was in love with someone else. And she only saw me as a friend. I couldnt help but think, what if??? What if she knew how I felt? Would she see me differently?

So I gathered all the guts I could muster up on night and sat her down looked into those beautiful eyes and told her. She told me she HAD felt the same way but she moved on with her feelings since she never knew I felt the same.. She had begun dating the wonderful butch she is married to now.

While it hurt, that she didnt feel the same anymore. I felt like if it was meant to be it WOULD have been no matter what.

I dont regret telling her. At least she knew, and it relieved me. Now, we are close friends and I am close to her husbutch as well.

So take a chance. You never know how wonderful something could turn out to be. But one thing is for sure. What's meant to be WILL happen.

Best of luck to ya!

I dont regret telling her. One I felt better, and two I could rule her out as the one.

07-24-2011, 10:59 AM	#3
bigbutchmistie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Since You Need A Label. Butch Relationship Status: Still Dreaming Of My Happily Ever After Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Arlington Texas Posts: 4,009 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,950 Thanked 5,364 Times in 1,941 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Hey I wanna start by saying I totally agree with IamKeri1 I have been in your shoes before. It hurts like hell. But, when you love someone you truly want their happiness even if its not you. For me, I HAD to tell her. She had to know. I couldnt eat, I couldnt sleep, and she was on my mind all the time. The scent of her perfume the tenderness of her touch although innocently drove me insane. LOL Even though I knew she was in love with someone else. And she only saw me as a friend. I couldnt help but think, what if??? What if she knew how I felt? Would she see me differently? So I gathered all the guts I could muster up on night and sat her down looked into those beautiful eyes and told her. She told me she HAD felt the same way but she moved on with her feelings since she never knew I felt the same.. She had begun dating the wonderful butch she is married to now. While it hurt, that she didnt feel the same anymore. I felt like if it was meant to be it WOULD have been no matter what. I dont regret telling her. At least she knew, and it relieved me. Now, we are close friends and I am close to her husbutch as well. So take a chance. You never know how wonderful something could turn out to be. But one thing is for sure. What's meant to be WILL happen. Best of luck to ya! I dont regret telling her. One I felt better, and two I could rule her out as the one.