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imperfect_cupcake · 07-24-2011, 02:37 PM

I've been there. It took a LONG time to build up the guts to say anything. But when I did it turns out he knew anyway and he felt the same but was really nervous himself. We had sex for three days with short breaks for eating and sleeping. We were together for four and a half years... it just petered out into best friends at the end, partly because I suspected I was gay. We still adore each other and we both finish each others stories and sentences. His partners have gotten jealous over our friendship even though he tells them "but she's GAY".

If B is straight I think you might be worrying for nothing. My best mate is straight and when we lived in the same city we used even take baths together with a cup of coffee each as a make-do hot tub (we always managed to get flats with giant claws feet tubs). I adore her, she's like my sister, I love her very very much. I have had partners get jealous of my relationship with her, which she found hilarious and used to take the piss a bit about it with anyone who did get jealous. She's a bit wicked that way. But I never understood why. Although I love her to smithereens, I would NEVER have a relationship with her, even if she were gay. Not a chance. She'd drive me insane.

You really should tell your friend when you are able to, cause this is going to eat at you until you burst. And what if she started dating someone when you could have asked her first?

Work up to it and do it.

07-24-2011, 02:37 PM	#4
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,710 Times in 1,611 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	I've been there. It took a LONG time to build up the guts to say anything. But when I did it turns out he knew anyway and he felt the same but was really nervous himself. We had sex for three days with short breaks for eating and sleeping. We were together for four and a half years... it just petered out into best friends at the end, partly because I suspected I was gay. We still adore each other and we both finish each others stories and sentences. His partners have gotten jealous over our friendship even though he tells them "but she's GAY". If B is straight I think you might be worrying for nothing. My best mate is straight and when we lived in the same city we used even take baths together with a cup of coffee each as a make-do hot tub (we always managed to get flats with giant claws feet tubs). I adore her, she's like my sister, I love her very very much. I have had partners get jealous of my relationship with her, which she found hilarious and used to take the piss a bit about it with anyone who did get jealous. She's a bit wicked that way. But I never understood why. Although I love her to smithereens, I would NEVER have a relationship with her, even if she were gay. Not a chance. She'd drive me insane. You really should tell your friend when you are able to, cause this is going to eat at you until you burst. And what if she started dating someone when you could have asked her first? Work up to it and do it.