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Old 07-25-2011, 10:59 AM   #16
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Not poly myself, but I don't find it immoral. It's obviously right for many others. It's been my experience that when one partner brings up adding a third person, it's really code for "I want to date around, but don't want to break up". As PrincessBelle said, it's down the drain after that, because one of the partners isn't 100% in the relationship.

I would have to bring this subject up with a prospective partner, and no, if she came to me later, I couldn't do it. It's not just sexual jealousy, it's emotional jealousy, too.
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