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Originally Posted by sassy_girl
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I know it's just a reality show but the show Sister Wives on TLC opened my eyes to a LOT of things.
The wives have their own very solid relationship outside of the husband (butch in our case)
One is a outside the home worker who brings in a financial income, that is how she serves the family. When she gets home her kids have done their homework, dinner is ready for family. She gets to enjoy them !
Second also works outside the home, she also does lots of household stuff too, this feeds her soul and she is the typical soccer mom.
Third wife, the first wife is the domesticated wife. She loves to stay home, get the house clean and wait for kids to come home from school.
My point? Each has a place and they operate like a well oiled machine.
I am the domesticated wife, who also feeds her soul with healing and bringing in some financial support.
My Sister runs a very successful clinic in which she serves this family and others everyday. I make sure she has a wonderful love filled lunch and we have a family dinner everynight, that feeds my soul.
Is it perfect? No. Is it heaven? yes.
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It would need to be a well oiled machine and everyone doing what inspires them in that dynamic. Some domestic, others not. If I had to do housework and laundry I think I'd get resentful and be a grumpy girl. But I am a good provider, good managing things and great at running a household as long as someone cleans.
I like Sister Wives but think they have too many damn kids!