Infamous Member
How Do You Identify?: Lesbian non-stone femme
Preferred Pronoun?: She, her
Relationship Status: Committed to being good to myself
Join Date: Jun 2011
Location: West Coast
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Hmm...
In matters Of the heart, prey-yes. I have a hard time being the initiator. I think I have pretty much been socialized into this role and I try to break out and to be more of the pursuer but it is not comfortable for me. I am pretty shy too.
In matters of the heart, no competition. Refuse to play games-either want me or not.
In work and life, yes I will and have-pursued jobs and opportunities that I have wanted and have also been competitive in those arenas. Somehow it is much easier for me behind my professional role than in my personal life.
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~Anya~
Democracy Dies in Darkness
~Washington Post
"...I'm deeply concerned by recently adopted policies which punish children for their parents’ actions ... The thought that any State would seek to deter parents by inflicting such abuse on children is unconscionable."
UN Human Rights commissioner
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