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Originally Posted by ruthie14
Happy Sunday Lofters.. Wow it has really been slow around here!
I am curious... it seems in my circle of friends who are over 40 and single are only into friends with benefits or one night stands. Niether of which is ok for me... alright for them if that is what they want, just not ok for me.
I am wondering how many folks here feel the same way they do. You don't have to be single to answer the question, just answer as if you are single if you are not.
It just seems there are too few people that want the long term thing anymore. I am 49, I have had a few gfs but I have only been our for 5 years...some of which I was still married to a man and was not looking for a relationship with a woman at that time. It seems to me that only women who are under 40 even think about having a real relationship around here. If they are over 40 and believe that relationships are great... they are already in one.
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well for me i dont want a casual hook up i want something we can grow in and last.... hope that helps
