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Originally Posted by Novelafemme
Thank you all for the advice and input! I really appreciate it!
I have never in my life been someone to worry about my own personal safety...in fact, I am a bit too relaxed in some ways. I grew up in a small town where we never had to lock our doors and my dad left his car keys in the ignition. But, I am a single mom and I do worry about what I would do if someone were to break into my home with the intent to hurt me and/or my daughters. I mean I'm quick and feisty, but if it came down to me versus a 6ft man...well. I totally understand the line of thinking that stems from if my time is up - my time is up...but, goddammit, I am going to fight to my death before someone ever rapes me again! And the same goes for my girls.
It's not an easy decision and one I don't take lightly. I think my first step will be to get some hands on experience with a firearm and then go from there.
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owning a gun doesnt mean you have to live in fear. Being a responsible gun owner is important. I wouldnt keep a gun in the nightstand with kids around. Maybe a mini rack or box way up high hung to the wall. you can even buy hanging lock boxes with combination locks. Just learn how to access it quick. Being fit and strong is also a line of defense. Maybe a self defense class for you and your girls. Make it a fun family event. Teach them to be strong. I'm not a black belt by any means but I could sure put a hurting on a grown man. Understand and cultivate your power... respect it and it will protect you.
I am a spiritual woman. I wish no harm on anything, however I also know its my right to defend myself. Its up to me to learn how. It gives you courage to stand taller and to move on this earth more fearlessly. Never be afraid of pain. Learn to own it or extinguish it.