[LediskoLove99]

Originally Posted by bigbutchmistie

Hey I wanna start by saying I totally agree with IamKeri1

I have been in your shoes before. It hurts like hell. But, when you love someone you truly want their happiness even if its not you.

For me, I HAD to tell her. She had to know. I couldnt eat, I couldnt sleep, and she was on my mind all the time. The scent of her perfume the tenderness of her touch although innocently drove me insane. LOL

Even though I knew she was in love with someone else. And she only saw me as a friend. I couldnt help but think, what if??? What if she knew how I felt? Would she see me differently?

So I gathered all the guts I could muster up on night and sat her down looked into those beautiful eyes and told her. She told me she HAD felt the same way but she moved on with her feelings since she never knew I felt the same.. She had begun dating the wonderful butch she is married to now.

While it hurt, that she didnt feel the same anymore. I felt like if it was meant to be it WOULD have been no matter what.

I dont regret telling her. At least she knew, and it relieved me. Now, we are close friends and I am close to her husbutch as well.

So take a chance. You never know how wonderful something could turn out to be. But one thing is for sure. What's meant to be WILL happen.

Best of luck to ya!

I dont regret telling her. One I felt better, and two I could rule her out as the one.

Thanks for the advice that sounds like it was a really horrible situation. I feel your pain.

I told her, a little too late. She's dating this girl. SHe just hugged me and said it was ok to feel that way and she loves me. But it hurts especially when I see them so cute and coupley together. But that's ok, I know in the beginning of our friendship she was really attracted to me. So once I move closer to her, I'll just see what happens. It sucks but you never know what can happen.