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Originally Posted by Julie
I am not concerned about our history.
I am concerned with people (such as yourself) deciding who it is appropriate to use the term and identify as a Lesbian and who it is not appropriate for.
That concerns me.
For me... For me...
Lesbian is who I am inside.
It is part of my soul.
It is not about who I am having sex with.
It never was.
My memories of loving girls goes back to when I was a child. I remember this heavy feeling in my soul, when she would look at me. How I would lose my breath. How all I could do was think of her. Watch her on the swings and know... Just know, I would LOVE her forever. Before, I even knew what sex was.
It's simple really.
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Nothing you're describing above is contradictory to being a lesbian, but as for the minimal semantic value of the word, it comes down to:
You have a pussy? You like pussy exclusively? You are a lesbian.