Well Kobi I am a lesbian, have been for over 30 years. I am a woman attracted to women, so I do fit your definition.
I often feel invisible or disrespected in BF circles as well- it's due to the stereotypes and narrow conceptions of lesbian that get thrown out- no matter who is saying them.
There are quite a number of lesbians that are part of this community who do partner with male identified/male people. They are lesbians as well. They are human beings- not linguistic debate or terminology.
I am happy to discuss my points of interest in a different lesbian thread if this really is so upsetting to you.
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