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Good 'n married.
Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: Eastern Canada. But if I make a wrong turn at the lights I get stopped by a border guard.
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Lizzy, First let me say how sorry I am that you lost your second child. It takes nothing away from the love you have for your two surviving children to say you had another child and you lost him/her. I think you hit the nail on the head when you said that your doctor had a terrible bedside manner. It doesn't matter that HE thought it was inconsequential for you to lose the baby - it wasn't him that was going through it! I'd really encourage you to find somebody to talk to about this. Doesn't sound like that will be within your family - so a different doctor, a therapist, a pastor that you trust. Because it IS normal - for you! YOU lost a child and YOU are grieving. So you deserve support to help you through this. Again - my sincere sympathies Lizzy. Please take care of yourself.
Sue 
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"Compassion, in which all ethics must take root, can only attain its full breadth and depth if it embraces all living creatures and does not limit itself to mankind." -Albert Schweitzer
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