Hunter -
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Originally Posted by Tawse
I'm not an FtM but I have my own personal answer for this one. I don't consider myself a "lesbian" and I don't consider my wife to be "lesbian" (nor does she).
I am queer. I am not a Woman - but rather somewhere between male and female and I happen to have a female body.
Gillian is not a lesbian because even though she IS a woman - she is in love with someone who is not and is sexually attracted to a wide spectrum on the "butch" scale - but not bio male. (to her bio males have a different energy than FtMs / Butches / Gender Queers)
So I would say that not even all of those who don't ID as FtM consider themselves Lesbians. 
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Hunter -
See? lol
I wrote my post b/c I was concerned that the responses you would receive is people wanting to clarify your language and such (kinda like me), and I am thinking that you don't want the discussion to go that way. We like to derail around here!
tawse, I echo your thoughts here!