[DamonK]

Originally Posted by pinkajl

apretty,

Since we've never met and you've never attended one of our workshops, I'll share that we preface every single workshop we facilitate with the fact that we are not telling anyone what is "right" or "wrong". There is no single definition to being butch or femme. It is a spectrum and a personal journey unique to every individual.

We simply come to our workshops with a series of questions and at least one introspection activity. We work hard to create a safe space for sharing. And, we do our best to encourage a healthy discussion on a particular topic.

With that said, I referenced the Q/A from our latest workshop because I found the exchange interesting and relevant to this thread. Our topic was butch cock, trans dick and the phantom penis. Someone else brought up femme cock in our workshop, as well as this board. In the workshop, the exchange I posted generated some light as well as nervous laughter, but it led to a very good discussion. I came to understand what the sense of the 25+ people in our workshop was regarding the topic. I was hoping to do the same here.

As for emotional safety from cock... We seem to share the same question. Is that an issue for butches and FTMs? Since I am neither, it's not my place to answer; so, I will wait to see if someone else chooses to share their perspective.

Pink

Ohhhhh good question!

I love the male/male relationship. Even though I am female bodied, which I find very insulting, I have no problem with the right FTM...using and abusing me. It would largely depend on who it is. It equates as gay male sex in my head.

And, in my opinion, its fucking hot as hell..... and I quite enjoy it.