The above posts are excellent posts. But I feel I may have rattled some cages without meaning to. And please forgive me if I have.
The definition of my life is simple. I doubt I will ever find a partner again, which is beside the point. But if I were to ever become involved it would be.... first....because she is attracted to my maleness or "male energy" as the counterbalance to her femininity. I guess my view on this is very traditional. I can't tell you how many times I've been rejected by the gay community by women who make it clear to me that they are lesbians and wanted no part of maleness. "If I wanted a man, I'd be with one," is usually the answer. So I'm left asserting that this must be a classic example of lesbians and that we are on opposite ends of the spectrum. But when 3 three women who ID as "transenual femmes" each tell me they are attracted to male energy without the bio bullshit, then I figure this is how it must be.
Anyway thanks for responding to my earlier posts...really well-done you guys...the bottom line is that I'm going to do what pleases me or completes me as the person that I am. And with IDs seemingly complicated and inter-woven I doubt whether I will be involved or loved for who I am which is why I distance myself do often.
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