You got some major red flags popping up all over your post:
Wanton is mentally unstable with some issues with depression.
I'll be honest with you, I get people have issues but for *me* as a Master I don't want your issues, I would certainly help out and make sure proper medical care was sought out.
hy has hys own perception and lately keeps changing our relationship
This for me as a Master is NOT acceptable, the person who serves me does not change the relationship I do. Hence why I am in Femme Led relationships perhaps you guys need to talk about his need to keep changing it.
Hy has also been playing these little passive aggressive games
Yeah, this one would get you a kick to the curb first time
the days hy chooses to be submissive towards me hy does.
Once again he is doing the choosing? As a Goddess shouldn't you be the chooser? I'm not being sarcastic I am being 100% honest woman to woman Femme to Femme Domina to Domina, why is this person choosing?
It's a bit of a roller coaster
No fun.
would say hy is responsible for the bulk of it.
That screams volumes that he.hy gotta go
get shit faced to the point where hy couldn't even talk to me. I didn't enjoy being around hym like that
This I am like .gif "Say What?")
I partake in the green and I will be honest I can't imagine smokin' to the point of the above statement. No one likes sloppy.
The beauty of these relationships is, we make the calls period, if it's not working we gently escort the person who thought they could occupy the space out the door because frankly who needs that? My mind can not wrap around at the thought continuing in an exchange where my needs are not met period. It's a good idea you did not allow he.hy to come over and taint your space with all this negative interaction and I do hope you take the time to think if you want to continue with the toxicity, I wish you much luck!