i was using your post as a jumping off point and i probably shouldn't have made it seem like like i was singling out a Newbie..for that i am sorry..
with that said this space was created for those do not feel comfy with speaking about or those who do not enjoy or understand Butch Cock..
i had no intention of putting you on the defensive..yes that is how i am reading your post..
this was an attempt to be inclusive not exclusive..
BTW welcome to the Planet!!..
