[AtLast]

I'm confused- I thought it was not OK via the TOS to cross quote from other threads.

I could be wrong about this, however.

I'm glad there is a thread for discussion of how we all have our own likes, dislikes, or more important for me, flexibility in what we want when sexually without fear of condemnation. Or personal attacks.

Something that I have always appreciated about the Planet (and the dash site) is that all matters of sexuality could have a space for discussion. And we respect each other and not make automatic assumptions or judgments about each other.

Sometimes as a butch, I feel there is a generalized assumption thal all butches MUST have cock as part of sex and that you are "less butch" if you want to always have sex with a cock. Or have different feelings about how you experience sex with it or what it means in terms of your body.

And there are femmes/women here that do not have the same connections to it as other folks.

Both butch & femme cock have their place as far as I'm concerned and that is a personal choice. So is what we want to call it.

We are a diverse community. And we need to give each other room to express ourselves even if it goes against the “norms” (really perceived norms within a sub-culture) of our community. Different strokes…