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Originally Posted by apocalipstic
OK so back on topic.
I like BC, but since my hysterectomy am afraid of it.
In my last relationship I was the more likely of us to strap on and I love that. Penetration leading up to and after my hysto has mostly been painful and I am really hesitant to see if my penetration with BC days are over. Kind of tortured about it to be honest.
I have slept with one person since then where penetration was comfortable and very pleasurable, but no BC was involved, except for orally which I quite enjoyed. I thought I was dead as a woman before this, and will always be eternally grateful to this person for making me feel whole again.
When the time is right, I hope to take it really slow with a kind and patient lover and see what happens. It messes with my head to have painful sex.
So yes, I like BC, but am not sure what place it will play in my life in the future.
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I had a hysterectomy last October, months after I still found that BC would hurt and make me bleed. It freaked out my ex, she did not know how to handle this. I too look forward to a patient lover, and one who is willing to bring many options to the bedroom.