[The Oopster]

Originally Posted by Ebon

Did anyone go to the doctor and ask to be put on T without needing a letter from a therapist? If so did they just put you on T or did you have to do some tests first and wait for the results? Can the doctor say no is what I'm asking. Also did anyone have issues with hbp and was still able to take T?

Originally Posted by Thinker

Hey Ebon...

I started without a letter from a therapist. I had a letter in my possession, but the doctor never asked. That damn thing is still sitting...sealed......in a file folder.

I started with a guy in DC who had a lot of exposure to the MTF community there. I think he had gotten to the point where he was pretty comfortable making that decision for himself after a couple of visits with the patient.

I don't recall the specifics, but I am almost certain he went through a laundry list of labs before I started. I remember that I did not get my prescription until around my third or fourth visit; even then, I started on a very low dose of a transdermal patch. We both wanted to ease into it slowly since I have a history of migraines that were often triggered by hormonal changes. I started injections after about 3 months, I think.

I did not have a history of high blood pressure, but I did see changes once I started on T; it was high almost always. After about a year or so, that was no longer an issue.

A doctor can certainly say no. Finding a doc who, like mine, is very familiar with the trans community and our issues/obstacles with health care is pretty important.

Originally Posted by Ebon

Absolutely agree 100%! I have researched this other stuff and I do appreciate everyone's input, but I was looking for more of other people's experiences rather than information that I already had. Thinker (and now I know why you have that name) I am exactly the same way. I am in my body no one else is. This is my life I have to deal with any consequences of any decisions that I make. I have to walk my own path. I don't need someone else telling me when I am ready to do something and when I'm not. The only reason it's taken me this long is because of the whole going to a therapist that probably isn't even transgendered that is going to tell me if they think that I'm ready. I only recently found out that quite a few guys didn't even need to go to a therapist. The medical aspect I understand but when it comes to my emotions and my body it's up to me.

Thanks again everyone for your input.

Ebon

Originally Posted by Thinker

The EXACT same thing was true for me, Ebon.

I totally get that...and respect it.

You can do this your way; it's just a matter of finding the right doctor.

Originally Posted by Linus

It's funny. I didn't know that there was a Standard of Care or that WPATH existed until after I started to medically transition. I always thought that the Hippocratic Oath was enough but learned, as part of this process, that there is far more than just what I believe and feel I need. I would say that the best resource I had for all this stuff was Hudson's FTM Guide.

I'm glad that the standard is there. I do believe it's for those who are doing it for "fad" or because someone told them to do this. I think the challenge is because not all physicians can distinguish between the someone who really is a transsexed individual versus someone who doesn't really know and is doing this for the wrong reasons.

I was also hesitant about doing what I needed to take care of my body the way I saw fit and having it have to be approved by a therapist. I'm not against therapy. I have done therapy for areas of my life that needed it but by the time I was ready to make changes there was no need to brood it over with a therapist. However my path was slow. I used other avenues of support to come to my decisions. If anything I'm the type of person who needs a prod at doing something versus doing first and thinking second.

In fact I even feel life gave me the prodding. My T levels were low. So my normal physcian put me on the cream. I had other health issues and actually the higher my T level went on the cream the stronger I seemed to get. After a couple of years of this I was as high as the cream could go and be effective. At this point I already had 2 jobs that accepted me as male. Again another prodding by life. The first job my boss wondered, asked his therapist what he should do, and his therapist said to just ask me. From that point even though my government id still has the "F" my jobs have let me be Koop. The second job was funny because they started out calling me she, I rarely saw the people and it just wasn't worth going into but by the time I left everyone called me he. They figured it out. The only reason they called me she is they had seen my gov't id and knew. They realized all the clients didn't see my id so they didn't know and they called me he. In fact it's cool cause my id for that job has koop on it. It actually helped me get my mail at the post office. The guy was hesitant, and I said if you had this name, my birth name, would you want anyone else to know it? hence if somebody mails me something it's going to say Koop. "He said, you got a point, and let me sign for the package."

When it was time to go on the shots and to have my top surgery any of the drs I've seen just asked questions and could observe that I've been doing this for awhile and it's not a whim. I'm also in a recovery program and a lot of my self examination came through that program. If I wasn't i may have needed therapy. But I have changed in front of hundereds of people and again the professionals know that someone doesn't do that on a whim.

Now with that said there are drs here that are well established in the community that still expect that stuff, no exceptions. I chose not to go to those drs.

Now all the blood work and stuff I did have done and is monitored. That is important. It is also important to have it monitored by someone familar with ftm patients. My experience is everyone wants to blame every health issue that comes along with me on the T. Having a dr. who has dealt with lots of people I can get a proper assessment to whether that is a possibility or not.