[Soft*Silver]

I am re-visiting this thread, after having been away for a few months from it.

My submissive and I are doing well together. He is obedient, faithful, loyal,and correct in all his services and adoration to me. I have no complaints whatsoever. In fact, this is the easiest relationship I have ever been in. I have my limits, he honors them. And serves fully up to them.

I take care of my own house. He often stays with me but has his own residence. I am the Suzy Homemaker, making dinners, baking, cleaning. When I can. When I cant, he steps in and does it all. His service isnt to replace a spouse or be a maid nor to butler me. Though, often, he does. When needed. Otherwise, I need my independence.

He would never change the dynamics nor push the boundaries, nor dishonor me by presenting himself to me in any fashion other than as a stable, workable person.

He offers me his emotions, his love, his caring. I am tended to well. I also tend to him well. I give him back what he needs from a Mistress.

We have incredible conversations. His intellect is astounding. Gifted intellectually, he can converse on about any subject. I learn much from him. He loves to hear my points of view and we smile as we heatedly debate on different topics.

THIS is how life is suppose to be in a Femme led relationship, for me anyway. I no longer want to struggle. I dont need to be the one working so hard that my heart hurts and my brain feels unwired. I have had it with relationships that were cruel in their hoaxes and empty heartshells of affections. What I have now is real. And what my life was suppose to be defined as. I do not blame anyone in my past for my sorrows, except myself. As a strong Femme, I KNEW. I acknowledge that I KNEW I was forcing the round peg into the square hole, with the past decade of relationships. The only way it fit is if parts of me were shaved off and forced into places I never should have gone, had I been true to myself.

But then is Then and now is Now and I am happy. Could I be in love with this person eventually? Yes. But thats another topic. And not for one right now. For now, I am doing well in this relationship as it is.