[Sachita]

hey there Ms Tia, nice name!

I know what you're saying. I think its about female priorities regard;ess of how that manifest in a relationship. We evolve with a relationship and the cool thing is that as long as we identify our innate power and find a counterpart thats all that really matter. We each have our own needs and what we expect out of a relationship. It seems that you have found your comfort zone with this man and thats all that really matters.

I personally am not a Susie Homemaker type but it doesnt mean I can't treat some sub special and pamper her/hym. I often cook and flutter about my home in a ultra femme manner, however its a choice and not an expectation. I prefer my sub boi to be domestically attentive and adoring in a pseudo feminine way even if hy is butch or even masculine. It's a ying yang thing. The most important, for me, is that hy follows my direction and isn't afraid to bend the rules to please me. in fact hy enjoys the pendulum swinging!

I am happy for you. You seem peaceful, fulfilled and in your zone. Kudos to you.