I am very territorial about my home and my kitchen especially. I have a need to maintain my own territory and am good at it. I enjoy his care when I am down, but then it is out of need, not contractual purpose. I am pampered in many ways, but I dont need to be gluttonous of frivolities to feel Mistressy, but thats me. I see a distinction in my household than yours. We are just different, with different needs. Good luck with yours.
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Pole bachit, a lis chuye.
The field sees, the forest hears
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