Great thread Nat! I think to prepare and ease the transition needs support and an understanding of needs from both parties. Unfortunately, for me, I never got that far. Twice in previous relationships we had planned for a move and at the time of move it didn't happen. I won't get into the specifics but I think you have to be sure it is what you want. If you have any doubt about something or the person don't do it! I am guessing you all are sure from what I can tell from your post. People are saying perhaps get your own place first. That is an option and a good idea if you have the income for that. However, if you are comfortable with the person then by all means move in with them right away afterall you have "been together" even if it is LDR. I would say go for it if it's in your heart and you are sure and everything will work out as it should. Have faith and make sure you both are supportive of each other's needs. If you are not set on the way your bedroom or other areas of your house are, maybe go shopping together and set up the place how you both feel would be comfortable and make it your home together.
Other suggestions I would make is talk about pets, kids, finances and come to an agreement beforehand. These are some areas couples find the most difficult to agree on. If you believe a certain way, don't let the other person take that away from you. Stand your ground, meet in the middle. You don't want to enter into a relationship of living together if you have to change everything about what you believe or want for your life.
Above all, be there for each other, listen, undertand, be supportive. Good luck!
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