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Originally Posted by QueenofSmirks
Don't apologize for use of that statement. Ten people in one online thread don't speak for an entire community of people. One person's insult is another's affirmation. A friend of mine was transitioning several years ago and asked me "How do you see me?" I said "I've always seen you as a guy." He hugged me. It wasn't offensive to him, it was exactly what he was hoping for.
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The difference here is that he asked you. You didn't just assume that that is what he wanted to hear without him giving you reason to.