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Chancie · 10-29-2011, 07:33 AM

I am a very physically afectionate person.

I cuddle and squeeze and kiss Pete and the small children in my life.

When I am hanging out with friends,

I am happy to squish next to them and laugh and chat, though

I am not very comfortable sitting close to butches other than Pete.

But I do have a very low tolerance for what I experience as being suffocated.

It might be because I have asthma, or because

I spend a lot of time with students who need a lot from me, or because

The adults in my family didn't have good boundaries about personal space.

I can't stand light touch that feels like tickling either.

Pete knows that it feels invasive and scary to me, and that

I might not be able to control a physically aggressive response.

I don't always understand myself, to tell you the truth.

10-29-2011, 07:33 AM	#3
Chancie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: queer femme-inist Relationship Status: I'm lucky. Join Date: May 2010 Location: Western Mass Posts: 3,774 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,518 Thanked 14,540 Times in 2,744 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	I am a very physically afectionate person. I cuddle and squeeze and kiss Pete and the small children in my life. When I am hanging out with friends, I am happy to squish next to them and laugh and chat, though I am not very comfortable sitting close to butches other than Pete. But I do have a very low tolerance for what I experience as being suffocated. It might be because I have asthma, or because I spend a lot of time with students who need a lot from me, or because The adults in my family didn't have good boundaries about personal space. I can't stand light touch that feels like tickling either. Pete knows that it feels invasive and scary to me, and that I might not be able to control a physically aggressive response. I don't always understand myself, to tell you the truth.