[1QuirkyKiwi]

Originally Posted by AtLast

I am not physically demonstrative in general. Yes, I hug friends and family, but I am reserved really, overall with touching others and have my own boundaries in public. has noting to do with any kind of "moral" issues at all- it is about in charge of my own body and sharing it in all forms in the ways that I want to, including nudity (which I like in a relationship whith privacy.

I am very affectionate with lovers and a cuddler as well as someone that enjoys both giving and receiving massage. I enjoy circular soft touching on my tummy by a lover and to do the same for them if they like this. Foot massage is wonderful and a great way to calm me down when I am charged-up.

Touching while dancing with a partner that is also a lover in certain ways is simply hot to me. Like it best when it is "coded" by us and not all that evident to other people. I'm not into my sensuality or sexuality being open to the public. In fact, this is part of what I find to be the most sexually charged and heated.

I am not one to kiss deeply in public. Rather give little touches here and there or looks we understand that again, have nothing to do with anyone else.

I like to guide a date with my hand on the small of her back (if that is something she likes). And it is quite OK with me to put a hand on my knee or thigh, again, keeping it between us.

Intimate coded messages between me and my partner are another way of showing love and affection. I will happily show public displays of affection, such as holding hands, knee touching and kissing (not passionate face sucking kissing - that's for our private, lol!). I will demonstrate appropriate touching with friends and family; a hug when meeting and saying goodbye, etc.

Thank you for sharing.