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Infamous Member
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Lesbian non-stone femme
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She, her
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Committed to being good to myself
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I am very reserved with strangers and do not feel very comfortable with PDA. never have, with males BICO (before I came out) or with females.
OK, here comes weird Anya: I have never understood the hugging strangers thing. It always makes me uncomfortable and feels awkward.
Maybe because my parents never, ever hugged me as a kid, maybe it was the strange molesting uncle but I like to be the one to initiate contact when it feels safe to do so.
With a lover, I love to touch and be touched. It makes me melt into her. Last week when the butch came to pick up the dog, I did hug her goodbye. I was so grateful she took the dog. It did feel absolutely wonderful and I even felt charges in my "nether regions". I loved it.
Maybe I am unfreezing?
The other strange thing is that I feel comfortable talking about my feelings but the touching somehow is different.
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~Anya~
Democracy Dies in Darkness
~Washington Post
"...I'm deeply concerned by recently adopted policies which punish children for their parents’ actions ... The thought that any State would seek to deter parents by inflicting such abuse on children is unconscionable."
UN Human Rights commissioner
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