[cuddlyfemme]

Originally Posted by ScandalAndy

I'm completely boggled. Every time I think about it all I can figure is she was doing one of those "i'm seeing someone, but I"m going to go out with you a couple times to see if I'm missing out on anything" which would then imply that she is not missing out on anything, which makes me feel TWICE as awful. Ugh.

There aren't really any butches around here either, it's depressing!

If I were her partner, I'd have a freaking fit that she's going out to dinner with someone else but then again, I'm guessing her partner didn't know. You're right, I think she was just fishing to see if she's missing out on something.
You're right that its depressing about not having any butches around