[Gemme]

Originally Posted by Andrew, Jr.

Dear Gemme,

When you hit my age, you too will find yourself where I am at. At one time I was constantly worried about what others thought of me, the stairs, the glances, the finger pointing, and then the online crap. It is all about prioritizing what is important to you. You have to realize that nobody is going to pay your bills, nobody is going to help you let go of a sister and Godfather who both died of cancer. It is very different when you also loose a sibling to suicide as I have. My priorities are very different than most. Life is no longer an if, but a when.

Andrew

I've already prioritized things and don't really care what people think about me, so I'm not 'there' so to speak. I see what you are saying though and agree.