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Leigh · 11-06-2011, 07:53 PM

Today I am lighting a candle for, and asking for prayers for, one of My very best friends is in the hospital and is not doing so well now. 12 years ago this December she lost her then fiancee to murder; it was right around xmas in 1999 and she never had the proper chance to grieve. Now last year at the beginning of December, one of her dearest friends was found dead in her apartment and it was ruled a homicide but that was never confirmed. For years she has had a very hard time dealing with his death, and December has seen her in the hospital a few times due to very bad panic/anxiety attacks as well as self harming.

This year will be even harder for her as she deals with the one year anniversary of another friend's death, and already she is very sick. I've been texting with her current boyfriend and another mutual friend and they are very worried that she may not be strong enough to make it past the new year this time. Her body is weak and frail, she is being monitored 24/7 in the hospital by nurses and she has breathing tubes in to help her to breathe properly. I've been with her for a long time as friends; we've had our ups and downs but she has always been there for Me. We are all very worried for her and are praying as hard as we can - so far she is stable but you never know when things might go awry.

Any and all prayers would be greatly appreciated

11-06-2011, 07:53 PM	#2522
Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,024 Times in 4,784 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	Today I am lighting a candle for, and asking for prayers for, one of My very best friends is in the hospital and is not doing so well now. 12 years ago this December she lost her then fiancee to murder; it was right around xmas in 1999 and she never had the proper chance to grieve. Now last year at the beginning of December, one of her dearest friends was found dead in her apartment and it was ruled a homicide but that was never confirmed. For years she has had a very hard time dealing with his death, and December has seen her in the hospital a few times due to very bad panic/anxiety attacks as well as self harming. This year will be even harder for her as she deals with the one year anniversary of another friend's death, and already she is very sick. I've been texting with her current boyfriend and another mutual friend and they are very worried that she may not be strong enough to make it past the new year this time. Her body is weak and frail, she is being monitored 24/7 in the hospital by nurses and she has breathing tubes in to help her to breathe properly. I've been with her for a long time as friends; we've had our ups and downs but she has always been there for Me. We are all very worried for her and are praying as hard as we can - so far she is stable but you never know when things might go awry. Any and all prayers would be greatly appreciated __________________ "When you fall off the wagon ... clutch the sides of it until you get a better grip!"