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I am not sure if I ever severed the friendship completely but I have decided to keep my distance from what I feel are *emotional vampires*... people that just dump on you and suck you dry to the point of exhaustion.
Unfortunately I didn't tell them why, I just made a space between us, and when they were in a better space I could spend time with them, and I would learn not to allow them to dump on me or share their drama with me.
I tell ya, kudos for you for realizing that your behavior contributed to this.
It's funny how when we become self empowering, certain people drift away.
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