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					Originally Posted by  Fenchurch
					 
				 
				Well, of course you are.  I don't know you, actually, but I'll take your word for it at any rate.   
 
What bothers me is that you seem to be so emphatic about confirming this and I can't help but wondering - are you trying to convince others or yourself.  I've been an atheist my entire life and I've never doubted for a moment that my sense of morality is, at the very very least, equal to that of any believer.  But unless I'm directly challenged (and, sadly, I have been) I've never really felt compelled to justify myself in any way.  It doesn't seem like anyone here is arguing with you, but your posts are tinged with defensiveness. 
 
I don't know what your situation is, however, and I don't want to judge unduly.  Perhaps you're new to your sense of identity as an atheist.  Perhaps, like a lot of people, you were raised to be a believer, and then went through some agnostic phase before you had the courage to name your atheism to yourself.  This is a process that should sound familiar to any lesbian from an intolerant family.  Or perhaps you live in an area of the country where your atheism makes you a target for mistrust and contempt.  This is yet another situation that many lesbians and trans-folk can identify with.  My point is, people on this site are less likely to attack than to commiserate, whatever their world-view.   
 
That being said, I agree with everything you have posted. You are identifying a problem with our culture that, at the moment, is not being addressed.  But you currently have a President who takes pains to show respect for believers and non-believers alike.  People are becoming accustomed to the fact that atheists are not ashamed of who we are, and will not be closeted.  It's getting better - too slowly, of course, but most change is. 
			
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 I think you are really missing the point by focusing on Miss Tick's own personal psychology. The point of this thread is how the dogmatic, bigoted christian conservatives treat atheists. I think your choice to speculate on her perceived psychological motives for starting this thread is inappropriate and disrespectful, as well as off topic.
 
Respectfully,
 
Drew
		  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
		
		
		
		
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