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girl_dee · 11-08-2011, 07:53 PM

Hi there,

For the transmen,

I've seen many of you for a long while now on the boards, through your journeys, and I've always wondered about something.

If you are transitioning or already transitioned, what affect did it have on your relationship if you were, or are in one? I recently watched a documentary that showed the femme deciding she could not stay with her partner because he was going to start T, and transition. She truly loved him, but felt she would lose her lesbian card and truly did not want to be with a man. In the end she did stay, but her fear was that the change would change her partner so much, she would not be able to stay.

Someone earlier asked if anyone has dealt with being questioned as to why a lesbian would date a transman. I was just wondering if this happens often.

11-08-2011, 07:53 PM	#688
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,832 Times in 13,908 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	Relationships Hi there, For the transmen, I've seen many of you for a long while now on the boards, through your journeys, and I've always wondered about something. If you are transitioning or already transitioned, what affect did it have on your relationship if you were, or are in one? I recently watched a documentary that showed the femme deciding she could not stay with her partner because he was going to start T, and transition. She truly loved him, but felt she would lose her lesbian card and truly did not want to be with a man. In the end she did stay, but her fear was that the change would change her partner so much, she would not be able to stay. Someone earlier asked if anyone has dealt with being questioned as to why a lesbian would date a transman. I was just wondering if this happens often.