Black & white: She has not broken up with her girlfriend. Make it a no go.
Grey area: I live with my ex, we own the home, we live peaceably and amicably under the same roof with separate finances. I am becoming friends with the ex's new girlfriend, who has learned to appreciate me, and I her. The ex and I were always great friends, and made the friendship official by mutual agreement.
If she were in the grey area, in my opinion, there wouldn't be a question, other than your comfort level.
In the black & white area, unless she is in an open relationship(and the girlfriend knows and agrees with this too), again, it is a no go.
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