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smouldering · 11-14-2011, 03:03 PM

This is a great thread, very insightful

I guess for me I identify as queer femme babygirl, I am fluid. I have dated butches who enjoyed being touched, sucked, licked etc in a non feminizing manner and i have dated Stone butches who did not want to be touched, licked etc at all and never once did I feel like I was missing something or that it didn't feel right, it just comes naturally for me to desire my partner, to want to touch them in a way that they are comfortable and confident in being touched and each experience was amazing for both of us.
I think with anyone, there has to be that time taken to get to know them as a person, and then dive into the sexual aspect, everyone has their own limits or restrictions and i respect the hell out of that. Just my 2 cents

11-14-2011, 03:03 PM	#209
smouldering Member How Do You Identify?: Punky girly girl, glittery femme Preferred Pronoun?: she, her, etc. Relationship Status: Single, Recovering Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Ohio Posts: 1,288 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,306 Thanked 3,974 Times in 924 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	This is a great thread, very insightful I guess for me I identify as queer femme babygirl, I am fluid. I have dated butches who enjoyed being touched, sucked, licked etc in a non feminizing manner and i have dated Stone butches who did not want to be touched, licked etc at all and never once did I feel like I was missing something or that it didn't feel right, it just comes naturally for me to desire my partner, to want to touch them in a way that they are comfortable and confident in being touched and each experience was amazing for both of us. I think with anyone, there has to be that time taken to get to know them as a person, and then dive into the sexual aspect, everyone has their own limits or restrictions and i respect the hell out of that. Just my 2 cents __________________ ~~Smouldering~~ Suit the action to the word, the word to the action. ~William Shakespeare