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Originally Posted by Sachita
It takes the right man/butch/etc. that you trust and respect enough to give it to. Sure, you might struggle no and then but when you find the right person you'll let go.
If you can't and hy/he needs work then step it up. You aint the one that needs the training. Tell em to step up the plate or get off the play field.
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Or as I like to say, "my way... or my other way"
I don't think what a lot of people understand is that we run the world because we are good at it, it furthers the relationship towards common, mutual goals, and well, because our partners are secure enough in themselves to let it be so.
I find that because we are strong and can make a "honeydo" list, some take issue with it being about power. I don't think it could be further from the truth. It doesn't take away from Jess's strength, Dominance or Topness. I believe that it allows hym less to worry with and reinforces hym. It certainly doesn't make hym a bottom or a boi.
Since Jess is spending the weekend with me in Richmond, here's a small weekend list...
Go to bank and get dollar bills for excursion to strip club
Put out