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Morgan · 11-16-2011, 06:19 PM

There are a number of things I am looking for in a relationship, but will list only the most important items, anything else is nice, but not a must.

1. Kind (must have a big heart)
2. Faithful (you only get one chance)
3. Honest (don’t lie, big deal breaker)
4. Femme (oh yes, very, very important)
5. Intelligent (need to be able to carry on good conversations)
6. Sense of Humor (make me laugh)
7. Deep (not afraid of showing or expressing feelings and emotions)
8. Willing to work through the rough times (I don’t want someone who
gives up on a whim)
9. Sexually uninhibited, kinky, willing to experiment (no vanilla sex)
10. Cuddling, touching, nurturing and loving behavior (both receiving and
giving)
11. No bitching or nagging (no ands, ifs, or buts on this topic)
12. Independent, has a life outside the relationship (go hang out-you need
friends and activities on your own)
13. Stable/Self-sufficient (employed or looking)
14. Playful (I enjoy the serious side, but playing must come natural)
15. Clean and neat (includes self and home)
16. Somewhat Organized (I am weak in this area, need all the help I can
get)
17. Kind to children and pets (show me)
18. Emotionally strong (lean on me, but do not suffocate me)
19. Not afraid to give up control (give me the control)
20. Open and able to express what is going on (I cannot read minds)
21. Spunky and fiery behavior (if you don’t like something, tell me, I can
agree to disagree)
22. Respectful (no snide comments or innuendos)
23. Enjoys being pampered and spoiled (willing to reciprocate)
24. Likes going to movies, dinners out, relaxing at home, family
outings, vacations, traveling and trying new things (very important)
25. Must be somewhat active (cannot tolerate laziness)
26. No heavy drinking (absolutely)
27. Treat me as if I am the most important person in your life as I will
you (aside from children)
28. Wants to look good (does not spend an excessive amount of time in
front of a mirror on a daily basis, in order to do this)
29. Spontaneous (most times willing to do things on the spur of the
moment)
30. No drama (leave the drama at the door)

11-16-2011, 06:19 PM	#84
Morgan Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: she, her, hy, hym, does not matter Relationship Status: I am enjoying life.... Tournaments Won: 1 Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: Arizona Posts: 643 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,753 Thanked 1,604 Times in 411 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	There are a number of things I am looking for in a relationship, but will list only the most important items, anything else is nice, but not a must. 1. Kind (must have a big heart) 2. Faithful (you only get one chance) 3. Honest (don’t lie, big deal breaker) 4. Femme (oh yes, very, very important) 5. Intelligent (need to be able to carry on good conversations) 6. Sense of Humor (make me laugh) 7. Deep (not afraid of showing or expressing feelings and emotions) 8. Willing to work through the rough times (I don’t want someone who gives up on a whim) 9. Sexually uninhibited, kinky, willing to experiment (no vanilla sex) 10. Cuddling, touching, nurturing and loving behavior (both receiving and giving) 11. No bitching or nagging (no ands, ifs, or buts on this topic) 12. Independent, has a life outside the relationship (go hang out-you need friends and activities on your own) 13. Stable/Self-sufficient (employed or looking) 14. Playful (I enjoy the serious side, but playing must come natural) 15. Clean and neat (includes self and home) 16. Somewhat Organized (I am weak in this area, need all the help I can get) 17. Kind to children and pets (show me) 18. Emotionally strong (lean on me, but do not suffocate me) 19. Not afraid to give up control (give me the control) 20. Open and able to express what is going on (I cannot read minds) 21. Spunky and fiery behavior (if you don’t like something, tell me, I can agree to disagree) 22. Respectful (no snide comments or innuendos) 23. Enjoys being pampered and spoiled (willing to reciprocate) 24. Likes going to movies, dinners out, relaxing at home, family outings, vacations, traveling and trying new things (very important) 25. Must be somewhat active (cannot tolerate laziness) 26. No heavy drinking (absolutely) 27. Treat me as if I am the most important person in your life as I will you (aside from children) 28. Wants to look good (does not spend an excessive amount of time in front of a mirror on a daily basis, in order to do this) 29. Spontaneous (most times willing to do things on the spur of the moment) 30. No drama (leave the drama at the door)