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Originally Posted by DamonK
We are poly.
I have another person as well as MBE.
MBE is looking for another.
For us, it is not critical that we all have a relationship. We all have to get along, meaning her partners and me and vice versa.
Let's just say I'm dating X and she's dating Y. We want everyone to get along, but right now, we're not necessarily looking for a family situation.
Are there a couple of people that we could see in our family? Absolutely.
For us, we know that we cannot fill the other's needs entirely. She's my slave. I cannot be her Daddy. Therefore, that's what she's looking for. She knows the energy that I have fulfilled in my separate relationship and is fine with it.
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Hi Damon !
I think it's great that you can do this. It takes a great deal of maturity and
patience, and security to do this.
I think it takes a great deal of love and security to say "I'm not Daddi/Mommy/Sir/Mistress etc, so if you find that outside of us I am
Ok with that" I know it's not as simple as that but getting to that point
is pretty mature.