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Originally Posted by Cajun_dee
I would have never gone out and sought this lifestyle. I've always admired the Sister bond in poly families. Still I never thought of myself in this life, in the past I have had major insecurities and such. However, with the right setting and people those things go away and you feel solid and secure.
I suggest to check out your wiring, I would have never thought I would want this, but I am flying in this lifestyle.
dee
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I am really intriqued by this subject. I have always known that I was non-monogamous, but I think that is entirely different. I had a 20-year, same-time-next-year type of love affair while in committed relationships. If my partners had known about it, they could not have dealt with it. I think it takes a very secure person to be able to handle this type of situation without all of the jealousy and possessivness that just goes with the territory in any relationship. I admire your ability to rise above these issues.
Speaking for myself, I have known being "in-love" with more than one person at a time. Maybe this is not the case with you, but obviously it is the case with your "Syr."
What makes me curious is how she handles the needs of two women at the same time.
