Practically Lives Here
How Do You Identify?: Femme
Preferred Pronoun?: dee
Relationship Status: Hitched up
Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: Livin’ the Dream
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In my own feelings, I don't look at the good times as now being wasted because they are absent from my life, I embrace those times, try to let go of the icky times and move on. I also try (TRY) to say what could I have done differently, and learn from it.
There is only one person from my past that I have excluded from my life completely, each time she contacts me it confirms that I did the right thing in leaving her because she is still a royal mess, and I just don't need that in my life, I wish her well but I don't care to be part of the pity party, and I refuse to believe I am at fault for her reckless state.
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